From Sad Girl …

Before I learned about manifestation, I was the Ultimate Sad Girl. By 2021, my sadness had peaked. I felt insanely lost. 

I had just ended a short-lived relationship with a narcissist, and I was about ready to give up on love completely. Unbeknownst to me at the time, the friends I had were not truly my friends. I was still in contact with my abusive family, and I yearned for their acceptance.

I knew I lacked the genuine love and support I craved. My loneliness was profound and overpowering. 

A long, empty road stretches into the horizon under a vibrant sunset sky with scattered clouds, flanked by barren desert and distant mountains.

One day, I looked in the mirror and just cried. I couldn’t keep living like that. 

I had a job I hated, and it was taking such a toll on me. Because of this, I never had the energy to do anything outside of work. I spent almost an hour driving to work, an hour driving back, and eight hours in a place that absolutely drained me. Five days out of the week,  I was exhausted and dejected. I would spend my weekends in bed, sleeping and wishing I had more time to rest.

I needed a change more than anything.  

… To Manifestation Queen

Open journal with handwritten notes on a lace-covered table beside a lit candle and vintage radio, evoking a nostalgic and cozy atmosphere.

I started my manifestation journal one day when I was bored at work.

My very first entry is a list of traits I want in my dream partner. Now, my partner fits every single thing on that list. Almost like I created him. It’s mind-blowing.

I’ve also manifested countless other things—genuine friends, multiple work-from-home jobs, new sources of income, my car, a podcast with one of my best friends, free things, vacations, and more! 

Pain Into Power

I learned how to transmute my pain into power.

I quit my toxic job and met one of my best friends a few days later. I cut contact with the majority of my abusive family and three months later, I met my significant other. I cut off a friend after some shady behavior, and I got a job offer a week later.

There’s a pattern here. 

Two arms are raised against a blue sky with fluffy clouds, one wrist in an open handcuff. The image suggests freedom and liberation.

Every time I’ve cut contact with toxic people, I notice a positive shift. With those losses come greater gains.

I have learned that negative people will ruin your life if you let them. Their negativity bleeds onto you. It wasn’t until I set myself free that I fully understood this. When you cut out negative energy, you create space in your life for better things. 

This is the key to manifestation.

I first discovered manifestation when I was in middle school, through The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. I was a self-proclaimed skeptic, so it was years and years before I stopped scoffing at it and started applying the principles to my own life.

I’m so happy I took that leap and started actively manifesting. Not to be dramatic, but it saved my life. I don’t know where I would be without it.

I was once so hopeless and sad. And now?

I feel like I found the key to life. 

I created Kindly Abundant to share my story and teach you how to manifest the life of your dreams using proven, neuroscience-backed tools and techniques. With patience, trust, and self-love, there is nothing you can’t do. 

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